Hildburg Business & Horse 💼🐴 on LinkedIn: #fast #slowdown #internalfamilysystems (2024)

It's hard to perform well at work when you don't feel safe. Safe to be accepted for who you are.Safe to speak your truth.Safe to show up authentically.When you need to wear masks and pretend to be someone you are not, your performance suffers.I tried really hard to be a sales person.Reaching targets. Meeting KPI's. Selling more. Finding more customers. Convincing them to move away from competition. Responding fast to leads. It was the complete opposite from how I had lived the last years before.Slow. In nature. Reflecting. Being. Existing. Learning. Observing. Witnessing. Connecting.My inner world was shaken completely. As if the fast-pace environment wasn't my thing any longer.I tried to change to fit in. It didn't make any sense.Everything I had learned during the last years of working outdoors with horses, couldn't be applied to the business world. Or so I thought. It can be applied.It actually is very much needed.Just I cannot be in that world.I need to be with the horses.Beneath the sky.My feet on the earth. My body feeling their hooves' rhythm on the ground. The warm breath of my horse on the back of my neck.The smell of horses, mixed with grass and spring time flowers.The wind in my hair, the sun on my skin.The sound of birds singing, crickets shirping, horses munching on hay.Green fields against the blue horizon. Serenity for all your senses.That's where I find my peace.That's where I perform best.Being truly accepted. Being truly in tune with nature and my intuition. Here I can bring lots of value to the business world.From behind my laptop screen in the middle of the pasture.Dressed in comfy clothes not business casual.I can teach you to slow down. To be present.To connect.To find back who you are behind those masks.Questions? Comment below or send me a DM.#remotework#performance#peaceful

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Playing the referee for the first time in my life ⚽️ made me run 8,5 and 9 km. 5 and 6 games 12 minutes each and then running to the other field to continue a new game. Absolutely great experience. Muscles ache Definitely worth to repeat one day. Didn’t expect it would be so much fun. Especially 17 year old boys disagreeing with your decisions. Teams screaming at you from each direction.The below 7 kids were so very cute. Reminded me of when my handball team took a semester football at school and we all went like a bubble following the ball around. Made lots of mistakes. Definitely a good opportunity to learn setting boundaries properly. And standing up for yourself and what you believe is right. I suddenly have way more empathy for referees during games. It’s a fast pace environment and your decisions have to be fair and quick. You can’t make everyone happy at the same time. #day2 #day3 #30dayschallenge #running #swimming #cycling #walk #yoga

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Whenever I really have to push myself to do some sports, the better I feel afterwards. It’s so super easy to postpone fitness to the next day and the next and before you blink a month goes by. So much easier to sit on the sofa and bingewatch Netflix than pulling out the yoga mat and pressing the YouTube button. That was actually the hardest part, changing from jeans to jogging pants and rolling out the mat. The rest was easy. Effortless. Once you start, you follow through. Baby step by baby step if needed. I can proudly say though still not nearly being as flexible as regular people I can see and feel progress. Yoga and swimming truly helped me healing my frozen shoulders and regaining strength. Keep up the good work! Speaking to myself here. 😁Full body yoga workout with Adriene today. Made me sweat. Felt good to move my body back in ways I haven’t moved during the last weeks. #30daychallenge #yoga #cycle #run #swim #yogawithadriene #sweat #day2

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When you have a clear destination and no plan B, you have no choice but to get there.Tony Robbins said you need to burn all bridges behind you so that you cannot go back.My muscles were aching. I was really tired. But I had no choice. To Esaiiah and back. Didn’t believe I would make it. Like really. Just gave it a go and went for it. Same thing is true in business. If you always have a plan B up your sleeve, plan A won’t ever work. You give up before your muscles ache too much. You underestimate how far you can go if there’s no other way. Second try 🥈 New rules. Cycling, running, swimming, yoga. Every day. One of them. No order.#30daychallenge #day1 #cycling #run #swim #yoga #chihuahua

I was prepared to post a bloopers videos today of me trying to get these two on a Christmas picture. Little did I know that they would lay perfectly still and look into the camera. It was as if they knew I was taking pictures of them and what they were supposed to do. When you expect the least sometimes you experience the best. If you have no idea about horses or chihuahuas, then this may seem like an easy task: to put them like this and take a decent picture. Let me assure you, it is not. Not sure, how I made this happen today, but it truly felt like a big Christmas present to me from my 2 babies. May your days be merry and bright and may 2024 be the best year of your life so far❣️I for sure felt truly blessed and grateful today. It felt like I had everything I ever wanted right now in this moment. #horses #arabianhorses #chihuahua #doglover #horselover #christmas #photoshoot #friends #grateful #merrychristmas #dogs

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Het was een 'dream come true' dag 🌈. Hier eindelijk kan jij de wel verdiende winners van de Entrepreneurs Awards van Funds For Good leren kennen.Super blij met mijn nominatie en om erbij te mogen behoren ✨#fundsforgood#entrepreneurs#awards#impact#winners

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Ik ben nog altijd zo onder de indruk van de Funds For Good event en welke mooie projecten die anderen #ondernemer gelanceerd hebben. Funds For Good heeft van elke ondernemer #professionele videos en foto’s laten maken door Loic Delvaulx, een inspirende fotograaf-filmmaker-ondernemer hemzelf. Tjjdens de #awards ceremonie konden wij deze videobeelden voor de eerste keer zelf bekijken. Natuurlijk hou ik mijn coaching #sessies niet dressed up like this. Maar dit #kleed hing al 7 jaar in de kast nadat ik het gekocht had voor een #trouwfeest, en het voelde gewoon fijn om eens iets anders dan #cowboy style uit te proberen. Ik hoop je vind het #video ook zo mooi als ik. Laat maar weten aub.👇Day 35 #90daychallenge #horse #coaching #arabianhorse #ladyinred #dress #hildburg #hilde #trauma #healing #healingpower #fundsforgood

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I had a #breakthrough coaching moment today. For years I had it on my #vision board: that I have all the answers inside of me. Yet though I could always wrap my head around it, my #body didn’t know how it would #feel. Until today. It feels like #butterflies in my stomach. Like madly being in #love with someone or in this case with something. It feels like my body had to #remember something that had gone lost a very long time ago. I #reconnected to it today. And now I get it. I do have all the #answers inside of me. It’s this #feeling that I did create inside my body. Actually just by telling a #story about something I love doing. It felt so good. I felt full of #energy. Magnetic. #Attractive. Such a long time since I have felt that way. It’s like I have tasted blood now. In a good way. I know how it feels. And I can now experiment with it and let this feeling #guide me.Seems like I finally accessed my #intuition, my true inner #power within. Somehow. Unexpectedly. Good things will come from this. I can feel it 💫.Wait for it☝️

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Do you get #inspired by your #circle?

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